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It’s been some time since I wrote. Somehow I could not sit on it. Not relaxed enough in the head.
And then yesterday, I was tempted. I think marriage and relatives give me a kick… Kick enough to start writing again….
It’s been one and a half years now since I got married. I can now almost [...]

I have wondered why people get married when most times individuals are unhappy in their marriage.
For most people, it seems like they would have been happier without it but as it is the done thing , so they have done it too and would recommend the world to do it. Post the damage,  you can [...]

I seem to have graduated from ‘getting married’ issues to ‘being married’ issues.
So, another thing about ‘being married’.
If you are married and don’t have a child yet (esp. if you are in your end of first/beginning of second year), You cannot ‘puke’ or feel ‘quesssshy’ in your stomach without someone in your family/and worse friends raising [...]

It’s funny how we meet people and assume that how they interact with us in whatever context is how they are in most and all context.
Example:  Someone we interact with in social context who seems extremely pleasent to us might be quite uptight in professional relationship. But we assume that the one face or say [...]

I have just been really ticked off.
Excerpts from a conversation with an uncle of mine.
Uncle: Hello Beta!
Me: Hi Uncle.
Uncle: Tomorrow is HHH’s engagement and you and M have to to come for it. It’s at XXX at 7:30 in the evening.
Me: Sure uncle!
Uncle: Yeah, ab u are married and it’s best you become more responsible [...]

Here’s the new thing about getting married?
Suddenly u answer questions about your happiness index.
Your first job, your getting admission in great college, ur achievement in anything in life is incomparable to the happiness you are supposed to achieve once you get married. Getting married is the epitome of happiness apparently.
How many times in the last [...]

I have been raving and ranting about this whole “getting married” process.
So, one gloomy day, I was exchanging some enlightening mails with a friend on this, when he sent me these “post marital benefits”.
To  maintain his so-called “squeaky clean” image, I shall not disclose his name (I am a considerate soul).
I  did try to reason [...]

Fuse !!!
I have a temper. A short lived one but it comes with its full force, like a roaring fire.
And currently getting married and the whole process of planning it is making me see shades starting from baby pink, to rose pink moving to blood red and finally a shade which looks a shade [...]

Fishy Business

(Found on the net somwhere)
Marriages are supposed to be about two people wanting to live together. But it seems to become a song and dance for everybody but the two people concerned in the scenario. There is talk to functions, of small ceremonies to just formalize the whole thing. I dont deny its a [...]