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I seem to have graduated from ‘getting married’ issues to ‘being married’ issues.
So, another thing about ‘being married’.
If you are married and don’t have a child yet (esp. if you are in your end of first/beginning of second year), You cannot ‘puke’ or feel ‘quesssshy’ in your stomach without someone in your family/and worse friends raising [...]

I have been on my own last 3 years now.
So, when I quit job, I started a design firm, MadCow. I had my cousin as partner and a ready project in hand.
So, it was easier.
And I never faced an issue like this before where I am starting something by myself completely.
Then I shared notes with [...]

I think the biggest thing we do to harm ourselves is not admit to ourselves how screwed up we are.
We refuse to acknowledge to self that there is a certain way we behave and think. We fight it by blaming the world, looking for reasons to justify the same. But we will not say we [...]

It’s funny how we meet people and assume that how they interact with us in whatever context is how they are in most and all context.
Example:  Someone we interact with in social context who seems extremely pleasent to us might be quite uptight in professional relationship. But we assume that the one face or say [...]

 

Just do whatever comes to head at this very moment. Try it. !!!!!!!! 
 
Too much digging into the pros and cons sometimes can be a big deterrent in life from experimentation. 
Try it. Sometimes it works sometimes it does not. But go!! 
I wish I could learn to implement this in my life totally. 
-Que.

Sometimes there is this feeling that you wish u could abandon everything and just go !!! Go some where far or at a more peaceful place. Away from the pressures of society, people, work, responsibility, being politically correct, to do because thats how it is to be done, away from things and people bothering u, [...]

 
Ouch!!!
 
Its amazing how we complicate our lives as we grow old. 
We did not have issues, egos, depressions, negative energies when we were kids. We used to look at our parents and elders and wonder what’s the big deal about some of the stuff they used to fret over. 
Who called who first, who kept in touch, [...]

I know there have been endless books on this subject. People have gone into extensive research and racked their brains to arrive at some conclusions.
I have been noticing a particular trait among women. As we grow old, I see some of the super-successful women ( and here I mean, successful only  in professional capacity here) [...]

I go through this all the time.
I would have a decision/or buy some thing and then I would fret about where that was the best decision taken by me or not.
I would have sleepless nights arriving at how I could have done it differently and optimized on it. The big point being the deed is [...]

I remember how when we were teenager’s we would wait endlessly for Valentine’s day to come just to see who proposes who, who gets more flowers/cards/presents, who goes on a date, does the hottiee.. slut of the class run off with your favorite guy from school. And most importantly … flutter over who will ask [...]